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a man on a bench

INTRO/Editor’s Note: I was fortunate to develop as a writer in the city of Chicago in the 60’s and 70’s when newspapers were the voice of the city. Every off-street, neighborhood, bar, ethnic group, character, restaurant, political ward had story potential, and thoughtful editors took you under their wing and saw to it that your word ‘of the people’ be celebrated on its pages.

I was even more fortunate in that almost every editor I worked with on city newspapers and magazines (especially the Chicago Tribune, The Chicago Sun Times, and Chicago Magazine) let me do any story that interested me. I didn’t need the approval of a board of editors and managers. I merely called from the street…let’s say, John, at the Chicago Trib…and told him: “I’ve always wanted to do a story about guys who sit on benches in city parks all day. I think I found one.” The answer was always: “Go ahead.”

Fast forward from Chicago then to Door County now, where I have lived a long time. (Still with a lot of Chicago in my blood.) It’s an unusually balmy early spring here in this rustic, rural northern neck of Wisconsin. About mid-afternoon yesterday I went over to a place called Ellison Bay Bluff Park to check on a spectacular view: the ice moving out. I lingered a long while in the silence and beauty of watching blue water return.

When a stranger stopped to talk I handed her my camera. “Take a shot “ I said, “for my son and daughter. But take it from behind me, not in front. I want them to know I’m okay. Still a dreamer. And that I’ve reached a certain stage in life. I’ve become a classic bench sitter.” –norbert blei

A Man on a Bench

At four every morning Innocenzo Bonelli is up, partly because of the pain, partly because a ninety-year-old man does not sleep long. He eats in his room at the Wells Grand (“Men Only, No Transients”) and usually by six heads for a bench in Grant Park.

All men are not bench sitters. Young people, especially, seem to have no use for the furniture of city parks and small-town courthouse squares. It takes an Innocenzo Bonelli, a classic bench sitter, to give the pastime the grace it de¬serves. The buses roll by him down Michigan Avenue, the early morning traffic is ponderous, but he has the grass, the pigeons, a newspaper, and his bench. He is a study in tranquility.

“I come down here just to pass the time,” he says. “I don’t do nothing. I go home eleven o’clock and make something to eat. Afternoon I take nap, or I read some books… any book I find. Sometimes I walk down to the lake and watch somebody catch the fish. I like to be by myself.”

Bonelli. a retired baker, has lived in Chicago almost seventy years. “I come from Italy in 1910,” he says. “Never was back. No want to. I don’t care for the old country. It’s pretty good here.” There are long pauses in the conversation. To bench sitters, what is said is not important. You do not find a bench for yourself in the park to converse. But should a stranger come by and share your time and bench, you may make small talk.

“I get $184 from Social Security,” Bonelli says, rubbing his chin. “For me, is enough. I cook, I wash my own clothes, I cut my hair. Sixty dollars for rent. The landlady is nice.”

Bonelli has never married and has been in bad health most of his life. “Every month I go to the doctor to take blood pressure,” he says. “I can’t sleep only three or four hours a night. I had an operation here,” pointing, “by nose . . . here, by ear… and down here, prostate. I get medicine. But about six weeks ago they tell me they pay too much already. Last hospital bill, $3,000.”

Pigeons flutter around him. The sun is getting higher, and he pulls down his cap to protect his eyes.

Some coffee, Innocenzo? Some breakfast? On me.

“I don’t want nothing from nobody,” he smiles, opening his newspaper. “I just say thank you.” Then he disappears into the silence of his art. –norbert blei

[from CHI TOWN, Northwestern University Press, 2003, first tradeback edition. First published by Ellis Press, 1990.]

Norbert Blei | Photo made by A Passing Stranger


  1. John Nelson

    Norb, great piece…when I was a high school photo student in the late ’60s I often went down to Grant Park to shoot the guys on the concrete benches with my brand-new Minolta SRT-101…it was a far cry from the amusement park it’s since become with its replacement, Millennium Park…not that there’s anything wrong with it, just very different…

  2. Eric Chaet

    Very beautiful & very Blei.

  3. Judy Bridges

    You took me there, Norb. I could smell the sun and feel the wood under my butt. Thanks.

  4. Dan Peterson

    Norb I sat with Bernardo on that very bench many times. Thanks Dan The Master Boiler

  5. MaryAnn Grzych

    Just one of many wonderful stories in ChiTown. I’m still waiting for that book of poetry, Norb.

  6. Phil Hansotia

    This is a touching and beautifully insightful account that says as much about the author as it does the subject. Blei’s ability to read inner lives and unspoken conversations make him unique. Thank you Norb.

  7. Barbara Larsen

    Innocenzo, the quiet philosopher. The world needs to hear his story and you have provided it. Barbara Larsen

  8. Al DeGenova

    Wonderful piece…thanks Norb. From one bench sitter to another, that Ellison Bay view is one of my favorites in the whole county.

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